Well hey everybody (nobody?). I got a strange hang up I wanted to kinda put out there and see if anyone ever gives me any feedback on it. Ya ready for this? I can only achieve orgasm when I am actually inside my lover. And I dont mean orally either-especially orally. No hand jobs. No blow jobs. No toes or boobs-nothing. Never tried any other way but I'm sure there are others but I've seen no reason to explore since none of these have worked for me. OK....I'll be honest. There WAS a woman I was with about a year who DID bring me to orgasm twice orally but only with extreme effort. She said she sucked so hard it left hickeys on her lips and honestly the position we were in I think really would be considered more like I was fucking her mouth. It did feel great but not any better than her pussy would have been.
So. Any other guys out there experience this? Hmmph. Didnt think so. Kinda brings me to another sore spot actually. I have been with numerous women who I have let in on my little secret early on in the relationship and they ALL say the same thing ( or some minor variation of same)..." you just havent had somebody do it right( or good, whatever)" never works but interestingly, there have been several also who profess to "really enjoying doing it"...ahem.bullshit.ahem. Explain to me why it is then that (current case in point-my so) they never continue to try? Once or twice-no orgasm-never get em near it again. Dont get me wrong-it feels really good-just doesnt produce orgasm. In fact, I LOVE being woke up to that and she knows it. ONE FRIKKEN TIME IN TWO YEARS!!!! To me I guess the best way to describe it is that its like foreplay-leads to the good stuff but not the climax itself. Weird huh? If Jez is reading this I would LOVE her input on this...or anybodies for that matter.
In other news...I am proud to announce (almost) the release of my first sexual fantasy short story!!! Chapter one has been written and submitted to the final approver who didnt seem offended by it so, so far so good. Its a-gonna get a pretty good bit kinky so.......please standby....
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i will admit i am one of the women that profess to enjoy giving head. i enjoy it because i enjoy giving my partner pleasure and it will often turn me on if i'm not as much in the mood for sex.
so, no you are not a freak. you might be different but by no means alone in this.
i for one can take a very long time to reach orgasm. espcially the first several times i am with someone. i've had partners get frustrated by this and it only makes it worse because then that is all i think about.
in fact, only one man in my life has ever made me come orally but that doesn't mean i don't enjoy receiving it even if i don't reach orgasm that way.
if you are with an understanding enough partner, you should be able to express that you enjoy receiving head but that you don't come that way but it's great foreplay. a woman can feel frustrated if she is not able to bring her man pleasure. but if you have open enough communication then both of you should be able to work with each others needs and wants.
like roe, i too love giving head. its no bullshit. my man comes over sometimes and i blow him just because i want too, no reciprical action required or even requested.
that said, i am totally convinced this "ive never been able to cum from oral sex" is one of two things:
1-sad as all fucking hell
2-bullshit
explanation #1: this is a major tragedy. ladies it is your job to know how to give head. learn it, do it and love it.
explanation #2: it just almost seems like a dare. or maybe thats just me. because most women will want to prove to you just how good they can do it. thus getting you some serious head and when you cum all over she can have some satisfaction that she broke your sad cycle. this isnt such a problem for me, because most of the time i assume its bullshit and blow anyway. remember i love to suck dick, but most girls will do it like its a trophy. and that just seems cheap to me somehow...
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