Too liberal?

OK, THIS particular entry is gonna be a bit on the far side of "normal". I was kinda talking with someone earlier and we got on the topic of threesomes. NOOOoo...not like that, we were discussing it as to the dynamics and the stigmas and prejudices and preformed notions generally associated with them. I was encouraged somewhat to put some of my ideas here and so...heres some vulgarities relayed as tactfully as I can formulate. Why is it when men visualize a 3-some, its ALWAYS 2 females, one male? I have even heard the 2 types of cross gendered 3-somes reffered to as "the GOOD kind" and "the BAD kind". This sorta ties in with my beliefs about sex with any woman monagoumously. Why the hell does it have to be that way??? I mean, c'mon guys, where did it become sexy for a woman to indulge in another womans sexual pleasures but if its 2 men its "gay"and "wrong". That does NOT encompass sexual openmindedness-quite the contrary it personifies greed and lust from the male. Its like he is saying "so long as theres pussy, the more the merrier and thats OK" bullshit. I dont consider myself gay or bisexual but I certainley believe myself to be simply-SEXUAL. If it is in the realm of sex and you and your partner(or partners) enjoy it-have a ball-gender isnt the issue. How can a man be so narrow minded as to have as a favorite favor, oral sex(I cant tolerate it personally) and 'most' seem to be very hung up on on talking their lady into anal sex, but OH WAIT...."IM A MAN!!!!! YOU AINT PUTTIN ONE OF THOSE IN MY MOUTH AND YOU DAMN SURE AINT STICKIN ONE IN MY ASS"...double standard? Whats good for the goose is good for the gander? How can "he" say "oh c'mon...give it a try, you will like it once you get used to it."? Has HE tried it? If so...bring another fellow in bed with ya and just have a ball. "he" always wants a blow job. yay. oops oh wait again...he says he loves YOU and he wants YOU to do that for him but if he loves you and YOU wanted HIM to put one of those in HIS mouth how far ya reckon THAT idea would fly??? I think we have had way too many centuries of women being objectified and men being dominant. Not to say that if that is a role someone or someoneS are comfortable with, they shouldnt pursue it, just sayin-EXPLORE without prejudice. Here is kinda the best i can summarize this. LOVE is not sex but sex is a part of love-If someone is gay, they feel love for the same gender-fine-however if someone is merely an open-minded sexual person, it shouldnt matter WHAT the gender of the person they engage in sexual activity is. I may edit out this last closing statement because I fear nobody would truly understand it is MERELY A CONCEPT but- I could NEVER visualize myself holding hands for a walk on the beach at sunset with another man telling him I love him BUT I could possibly imagine a sexual tryst with a man purely for the physical gratification-my love will always go to a female though....and she thought the last one rambled on...HAH!