OK OK OK. I FULLY understand how my post ( and in fact the reality of it) regarding my inability to orgasm from external stimulation could easily be construed as a manipulation however, to those who have submitted a comment implying that that is a possible scenario I would like to point out one small detail of the situation. I am NOT trolling for sex here. I have absolutely no reason in the world to make a statement with the hopes that some young lady will rise to the challenge and "prove me wrong" or "take me where no other woman has ever been able to". Trust me when I say my life has been, how shall we say...???...promiscous? I have ventured through several life circumstances that lent themselves admirably to a steady diet of partners. I was a musician from Jr. high school until well after high school ( Guitar and vocals), I fell into the drug scene WAY to heavily for nigh on 20 years and I drove a tractor trailer most of my adult life-ALL of which attracted a certain amount of "groupies" to varying degrees, most of which attempted oral sex and with otherwise noted exceptions...failed.
I did NOT 'fess up all the way as to my psychological exploration of this however and I will now do so. I am a dominant in a unique sort of way. During the course of sex-play, I MUST BE in the dominant role. I even have a difficult time cumming on the bottom. (though not impossible) I presume it has to do with my ego/insecurity issues. I'm not positive but it could also be the quality issue, for me at least. I DEEPLY enjoy the intimacy of intercourse and oral sex just seems kinda impersonal. I want to feel a woman's body in submission beneath me- now THAT is a huge turn on. Oh well, further comments always appreciated. Thanks!
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I think its interesting that you note that oral sex is impersonal. I actually think its SUPER personal. I wont blow just anyone. wont do it. I have to know you and have been having sex with you and probalby love you before your cock is going in my mouth. i know im wierd like that.
i dont really know what that is all about. but sex? that i can do w/ almost anyone and it doesnt have to be personal. certainly it can be, but its not required.
jezebel-- i have to disagree with you but that's ok cause everyone is different. for me, the actual act of sexual intercourse is the most personal sexual act i can do with someone. maybe anal sex is the epitome of personal though. however, i have performed oral sex on more men than i have had actual intercourse with.
i can't just have sex with anyone (though sometimes i wish i could). it's too personal. like a one night stand--that just isn't something i can do and feel good about.
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